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neotatsu
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posted August 17, 2002 22:53     Click Here to See the Profile for neotatsu   Click Here to Email neotatsu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, such impecible luck you have audrie..

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 02:38     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm interested toknow what people call a "virgin". Is it kissing, oral sex, penetration, ejaculation, hugging?

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spungo
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posted August 19, 2002 05:32     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cheezi git:
I'm interested toknow what people call a "virgin". Is it kissing, oral sex, penetration, ejaculation, hugging?

Well, I only know what it means from a guy's perspective: it's the part of your life (at the beginning) before the invisible sign that reads Lady, plant your thumb firmly here! appears on the top of your head.

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spungo
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posted August 19, 2002 05:41     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's a bit of advice, guys: if a woman asks you if you have ever paid for sex... tell'em the real truth - say 'only emotionally'.

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 05:56     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i pay for a burger and fries, i pay for travelling to work, i pay to exist in this world.

damn, i forgot the really interesting point i was going to make.

something about the size of a man's wallet...or was it bugger them thighs?

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PeppermintPatty
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posted August 19, 2002 09:57     Click Here to See the Profile for PeppermintPatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by spungo:
Here's a bit of advice, guys: if a woman asks you if you have ever paid for sex... tell'em the real truth - say 'only emotionally'.


Sounds like someone needs therapy.

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 09:59     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sounds like a need to be loved, yet a fear of intimacy

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spungo
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posted August 19, 2002 10:04     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, you two - enough of the psychobabble already! What can I say - I'm a nut... I'm crazy in the coconut!

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posted August 19, 2002 10:10     Click Here to See the Profile for PeppermintPatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cheezi git:
sounds like a need to be loved, yet a fear of intimacy

Doctor Cheddar, Phd (Uni of Wednesleydale)


I totally agree, Cheeseman. I think Spungo would need several therapists, though, don't you???

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 10:14     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it's okay

all that therapee is just for middle class people who can't get laid

and no, i'm not insulting anyone intentionally

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 10:15     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
he could probably start up a whole industry

me, i used to be nuts, now i'm just praline

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spungo
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posted August 19, 2002 10:16     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cheezi git:
...i'm not insulting anyone intentionally


Well, I never do it intentionally, per se. That don't mean it don't happen.

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 10:20     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i know, it just pops out sometimes

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spungo
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posted August 19, 2002 10:22     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cheezi git:
i know, it just pops out sometimes


Are we still talking about insults?

Edit: yay - check it out - I'm an Uber geek... yay!!!

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 10:34     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nice one spungo!

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cheezi git
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posted August 19, 2002 10:36     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyway what's this per se? the only per se I know is per se thrower, and he liked to teach children about tools in the garden

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neotatsu
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posted August 19, 2002 17:12     Click Here to See the Profile for neotatsu   Click Here to Email neotatsu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cheezi git:
I'm interested toknow what people call a "virgin". Is it kissing, oral sex, penetration, ejaculation, hugging?

I'm going with Penetration, in the old days it was defined based on whether or not a woman still had a hymen, which isn't exactly accurate IMHO.

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cheezi git
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posted August 20, 2002 01:14     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by neotatsu:
I'm going with Penetration, in the old days it was defined based on whether or not a woman still had a hymen, which isn't exactly accurate IMHO.


okay, but what about for a bloke?

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spungo
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posted August 20, 2002 01:33     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cheezi git:
...liked to teach children about tools in the garden...

Yes, I've heard this about you!

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cheezi git
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posted August 20, 2002 03:50     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
steady on old bean, there's no need to cast asparagus about others!

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spungo
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posted August 20, 2002 04:06     Click Here to See the Profile for spungo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, I meant you know a thing or two about hoes.

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cheezi git
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posted August 20, 2002 04:28     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you ol' rake! fork off and leave my mangowurzels alone.

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Wizzar
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posted August 20, 2002 06:27     Click Here to See the Profile for Wizzar   Click Here to Email Wizzar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was a virgin until I was 20. About a month after I turned 20 I my girlfriend and I lost our virginity to each other (unless you count an oral experience when she was 10 that she doesn't want to). Anyway I used to believe in waiting until marriage, but when I met her something just made it feel right and before I knew it we were doing things that I wouldn't have done a few months ago. Sex is wonderful, but I'm in a very loving relationship. Sex just lets the two of us get as close as possible.

P.S. Anybody have ideas on how to propose? I already know the answer is yes, and I want to make the proposal something she'll remember.

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Wizzar
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posted August 20, 2002 06:29     Click Here to See the Profile for Wizzar   Click Here to Email Wizzar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yeah, one more thing. We both learned what we liked together. We communicated a lot about what we bot liked and I think the key to good sex with anybody you choose is through good communication. IMHO from my limited experience (1 girl).

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neotatsu
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posted August 20, 2002 23:55     Click Here to See the Profile for neotatsu   Click Here to Email neotatsu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cheezi git:
okay, but what about for a bloke?

I'll reiterate, penetration, rather, vaginal penetration(at least for heterosexuals), as for the old days, it didn't matter if the male was a virgin or not.

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chicgeek
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posted August 22, 2002 13:06     Click Here to See the Profile for chicgeek   Click Here to Email chicgeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cheezi git:
i know, it just pops out sometimes


like terret's syndrome?

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cheezi git
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posted August 23, 2002 01:24     Click Here to See the Profile for cheezi git     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by chicgeek:
like terret's syndrome?

don't know that one. dym tourettes syndrome?

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The Chump
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posted August 23, 2002 07:27     Click Here to See the Profile for The Chump   Click Here to Email The Chump     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was a virgin until I was married. Was I waiting? No way! Was it worth it. Definitely. As many may know, I'm not particularly bashful about my sex life. But here is the reason I was a virgin till I was married. When I was in high school. We were just getting beyond the AIDS is strictly a homosexual disease and anyone who has it is gay period and moving into the actual knowledge of what it truly was into the mainstream pool of knowledge. OK, so where does that get us? Fear. Many people that I knew were all afraid of sex because of the amount of talk of disease that got shoved down our throats. So on several occassions with many of my ex-girlfriends. Things would get hot and heavy(hey, I may have been a virgin, but I knew how to push buttons) and they would start feeling around and removing clothing, I would always ask "Are you clean?" Nothing like throwing on the emergency brake going 80. I had enough bruises from enough hard slaps and lost enough girlfriends that way. *sigh* But I've always put my personal safety first.
So I'm glad I waited because at the heart of every geek is that need for experimentation to find cause and effect, and if you don't have a single control group to work on, your experimentation may produce wide and varied results to no net gain.

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posted August 23, 2002 10:03     Click Here to See the Profile for Janeway   Click Here to Email Janeway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Wizzar:
P.S. Anybody have ideas on how to propose?

This reminds me of something freaky that happened a few months ago. I was in the grocery store and some freak comes up to me and proposes. He says, "I notice you're not wearing a ring. I don't have anybody, would you like to get together and get married?"

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gallimaufry
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posted August 23, 2002 13:24     Click Here to See the Profile for gallimaufry   Click Here to Email gallimaufry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by The Chump:
I was a virgin until I was married. Was I waiting? No way! Was it worth it. Definitely. As many may know, I'm not particularly bashful about my sex life. But here is the reason I was a virgin till I was married. When I was in high school. We were just getting beyond the AIDS is strictly a homosexual disease and anyone who has it is gay period and moving into the actual knowledge of what it truly was into the mainstream pool of knowledge. OK, so where does that get us? Fear. Many people that I knew were all afraid of sex because of the amount of talk of disease that got shoved down our throats. So on several occassions with many of my ex-girlfriends. Things would get hot and heavy(hey, I may have been a virgin, but I knew how to push buttons) and they would start feeling around and removing clothing, I would always ask "Are you clean?" Nothing like throwing on the emergency brake going 80. I had enough bruises from enough hard slaps and lost enough girlfriends that way. *sigh* But I've always put my personal safety first.
So I'm glad I waited because at the heart of every geek is that need for experimentation to find cause and effect, and if you don't have a single control group to work on, your experimentation may produce wide and varied results to no net gain.


I've managed to have 3 boyfriends that were virgins. And they weren't "make out" party whores either. The only time I had a boyfriend who wasn't a virgin he went and got tested for everything because I had told him (before we were even dating) that there's no way I'd sleep with anyone who wasnt a virgin. So he got tested in case we ever got romantically involved, which we did just a few weeks later and he knew his status was "clean." ROMANTIC isn't it. heh.
Well, more power to you for being in control. From a female stand point, I can say that if I marry without having sex with the guy first, my chances of marryng a man what can get me to orgasm durring intercourse are pretty damn low! too much information. sorrys.

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