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Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 25, 2000 01:08
quote: And of course, when the Japanese Americans were sent to "relocation centers," along with a lot of Japanese-Latin Americans, that was for their own protection! A great privilege, so they deserve to be discriminated against today. There are few things in my country's history I am ashamed of, but that one is on the list. IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 25, 2000 01:15
quote: Just so long as none of them shortie folk move into the neigborhood. I mean, there are limits I wonder if 'SHORT PEOPLE' is still legal for radio airplay? IP: Logged |
Swiss Mercenary BlabberMouth, the Next Generation. Posts: 1461 |
posted August 25, 2000 05:16
quote: Geneva is a very interesting city, I think that every single nationality is represented here. The last figures I saw were 34% Native Genevois, 33% Other Swiss and 33% Other Nationalities. All right the majority of the other nationalities are Europeans, around 70% Income structure? Interesting question. About 20 years ago I would have said Swiss on top and foreigners below, now this would certainly not be true. If you wish to learn French do not bother coming to Geneva. English, Spanish, Portugese etc. fine. French, nope. IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 25, 2000 05:53
quote: So maybe 10% non-white. Less than most large U.S. cities. That's been common in the U.S. for years now, at least in Minneapolis. Again, sounds like the U.S. (Now, in Britain, I'm told, the sentiment is "Just 'cause you're born here doesn't make you British.") If it's not too much trouble, look around for income figures, please. ------------------ Now I'm a reasonable man ... ka-click! IP: Logged |
CyberGoddess Assimilated Posts: 354 |
posted August 25, 2000 09:35
quote: Unless, of course, you work where I do and then you'd better HOPE all you have open on your computer IS porn. ------------------ "One world, one web, one program." - Microsoft Promotional Ad IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 25, 2000 11:42
quote: Yes, but since the black underclass is a subset of the underclass as a whole, I think the statement still stands. (Of course, in .za, the underclass is pretty much all black.) In part, I was just finding it mildly ironic that a statement which in .za constitutes outright racism (and is meant as such) can be said in the USA simply as a fact. quote: Of course. Even in .za, I don't think the most rabid Afrikaaner Resistance people would claim that all whites are perfect. They would just say that the overwhelming majority of whites are good citizens, while blacks, due to their natural inferiority, aren't. Which would seem to correlate disturbingly well with your observation that most crimes in the USA are committed by, as I think you put it earlier, "blacks and browns", despite the fact that they constitute a minority of the overall US population. (Who are the "browns", by the way? I assume you can't mean people from India, as the ones I've met here have been very nice and cultured, without exception. Did you mean Latin Americans?) ------------------ IP: Logged |
Petethelate Uber Geek Posts: 863 |
posted August 25, 2000 11:43
quote: LOL! "Johnson, I'm afraid we're going to have to let you go. CNN is *not* acceptable content here at HottRoxx.com!" Petethelate IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 25, 2000 11:52
quote: Yes, I think Astrid and I have already commented on the male fixation regarding the female breast. quote: South Africa. quote: True, but within any given race, the men are taller on average than the women.�I know several Chinese women who are hardly five feet tall. (Not that there's anything wrong with that, of course!) So it's not really relevant to this, unless of course you're into miscegenation.
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Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 25, 2000 11:56
quote: Did I miss a joke? Porn would not be found objectionable by your employer, but something else would? ------------------ IP: Logged |
Avi Drissman Super Geek Posts: 149 |
posted August 25, 2000 13:26
Saintonge: However, you do not need to be Christian, or even religous in any sense to believe in original sin. You just need the courage to look at people honestly. We all have an evil streak. As much as I don't want to bring this thread any further off-topic than it already is, that's not quite correct. IIRC, the Christian doctrine of "original sin" means that anyone who doesn't believe in Jesus is going to hell. Just because. It has nothing to do with how you behave. I'm not sure how Christianity deals with the "we all have an evil streak" deal. Probably something with the "devil". Avi IP: Logged |
Swope Geek Apprentice Posts: 45 |
posted August 25, 2000 14:08
Ok, we're getting into semantics here, but please let me indulge myself briefly. Saying that "orignal sin" means that anyone who doesn't believe in Jesus is going to hell is somewhat misleading. Rather, "original sin" means that no one is innocent. The newborn baby has sinned by nature of being human, hence orignal sin. Anyone who does not repent confess their sins to Jesus, who according to doctrine is the only one who can forgive one's sins, will not be saved. The previous explination implied that people who believe in Jesus are without sin, which is not true. For the record, doctrine of this nature (original sin, hell, whatnot...) is actually not emphasized much at all in several flavors of Christianity. I've been a practicing Christian for 22 years with the same church, and I've never once heard a sermon on original sin, or hell for that matter. IP: Logged |
Petethelate Uber Geek Posts: 863 |
posted August 25, 2000 15:51
quote: Oops, kinda. I don't have the full details, but the company that Cybergoddess works for is in the porn/website biz. Petethelate IP: Logged |
CyberGoddess Assimilated Posts: 354 |
posted August 27, 2000 19:44
I work for a company who owns and operates porn newsletters. It's my job to check the sponsor sites to see if they are violating our Terms and Conditions of sponsorship and terminate their accounts if they are. This means, I get paid to look at porn all day. ------------------ "One world, one web, one program." - Microsoft Promotional Ad IP: Logged |
Tau Zero BlabberMouth, the Next Generation. Posts: 1685 |
posted August 28, 2000 10:35
quote: Nowhere did I mention anything about mammaries (it's hard to indulge a visual fixation upon something that's somewhere along the side of your head, doubly so with your eyes closed). I think I mentioned cynicism and/or suspicion back there a ways; I think you're showing a lot of it here.� If you care to try to defend your hostility, please explain to me how a male in the comfort-ee position (head on comforter's shoulder/chest) with a female is more or less exploitative or fixative than the same position with the sexes reversed, or a same-sex couple?� (Are lesbians twice as breast-obsessed as males?) IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 28, 2000 10:41
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quote: Yes, by 'browns' I meant Latin Americans, or Hispanics, or Mexicans, or whatever the individual wishes to call themself. There aren't many Indians/Pakistanis/Bangladeshis in the U.S. yet, although their number is increasing. The ones I've met were all nice people. Otherwise, you misunderstand me. The majority of non-white USAmericans are perfectly fine, law-abiding types. But the U.S. govt. keeps statistics on the perpetrators of crime, and breaks them down by race (among other things) and they show that the majority of criminals are blacks and hispanics (they are also the majority of crime victims too. Imao, formed from having lived in slums, crooks prey on whomever is available, and that means the people in their neighborhood.) The high crime rates are just a fact. And by the way, when we lived in the housing projects, I met a good number of whites who were underclass. There are many statistically measureable differences in the distributions of characteristics among the various races (e.g. USAmerican blacks are taller than whites, on average), but I know of no evidence for a difference in basic moral character. IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 28, 2000 12:13
quote: My, such a privilege. I think you said you're neo-pagan, right? I thought neo-pagans were generally non-sexist, or at least less sexist. How do you reconcile this with working in the porn industry? I mean, I understand that it's just the administrative/technical side, it's not as if you're having sex in front of cameras or anything, but still, this is a business which is totally oriented around exploting women to cater to men's basest urges, and here you are providing support for it. I don't mean to attack you, I'm just curious how you deal with it. I remember a woman I met at a party just night before last, she called herself a feminist and a witch (she used the word "Dianic", which I think means separatist lesbian?), and interestingly she works in a field sort of related to yours -- she works in a store that sells, well, inflatable sex dolls and bondage stuff, and so on. The clientele is almost entirely male. She couldn't really explain how she could stand to work in such a place, though she did seem to see the irony. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 28, 2000 12:18
quote: Well, on most of the women I've met, the breasts are located exactly where you like to lay your head, and is it not part of the comfort of doing so that the warmth and softness of the breasts are there? It isn't just a visual fixation -- touching, even through clothes, is even more exciting for men than looking, don't you think? ------------------ IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 28, 2000 12:27
quote: Specifically, the "original sin" is, in Christian theory, the sin of Eve in disobeying God's command not to eat from the forbidden tree, and then "seducing" Adam to do likewise. This caused the expulsion from Eden, and is the primordial "fall" from which Christianity says we must redeem ourselves. I'm sure Astrid is much better qualified than I to analyze the immense hatred of women (typical of Christianity) that is symbolized in this. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 28, 2000 12:52
quote: Yes, I'm sure this is true, in .za as well as the USA. In fact, I think you're mostly just restating what you've said previously, in perhaps a bit more detail. The only thing I'm not sure of is why you think I'm arguing with you. All I've said is it's sort of ironic that when someone says these things in .za (where the situation is probably not really all that different, just a bit worse), he is considered, and most likely considers himself to be, a racist, whereas here you can say the same things without the same connotations. ------------------ IP: Logged |
CyberGoddess Assimilated Posts: 354 |
posted August 28, 2000 13:18
quote: I hardly consider it exploitation when these women make 3 times the amount of money I do and most of them ENJOY what they are doing. (And yes, I've met some of these girls) At the same time, I've always believed that the human body and sexuality is a beautiful, natural thing. Hell (I might as well let the cat out of the bag) I worked in a strip club for a short period of time a few years ago. I have nothing against the porn industry. Besides, I've always looked at it this way: the porn industry probably keeps there from being even MORE cases of infidelity out there. ------------------ CyberGoddess http://www.cybergoddess.net "One world, one web, one program." - Microsoft Promotional Ad IP: Logged |
Swope Geek Apprentice Posts: 45 |
posted August 28, 2000 18:41
quote: Ok, if we're going to take to this arena, I've got tons to say. You absolutely must take into account when these passages were written. Many denominations see the Bible as the Word of God in the metaphorical sense, and not the literal sense because it was actual human people who originally put the pen to the paper and wrote it down. All their inhererit prejudices and beliefs are going to influence what they write. Since they were written in a more sexist period than now (I'd like to think), interpreting them as a indication of today's sexism is somewhat distorted. i.e. they were written in a very different culture, so literal (and not metaphorical) interpretatoins are not entirely relevant. They same arguement can be applied to the anti-homosexual passages found in the old testament. At a first read, it would seem that the bible is decidedly homophobic. However, it is much more likely that these passages were directed against certain pagan practices, such as fertility rites practiced by farmers and the tradition of an army debasing and defiling a defeated enemy, and NOT against being homosexual. I only bring this up to demonstrate that such prejudices found in the Bible are indicative of the period they were written and not necessarily of the beliefs of Christianity. This brings up another point of mine. The passage you refer to is in the Old Testament, and Christianity is primarily based on the New Testament. In the New Testament you find women such as the Virgin Mary, who is the only human without sin, and Mary Magdelene, who had more faith than the Disciples. btw - Nowhere in the New Testament will you find any passages refering to homosexuality in any form. And my apologies for going off like that. -Swope ------------------ IP: Logged |
Tau Zero BlabberMouth, the Next Generation. Posts: 1685 |
posted August 28, 2000 20:39
quote: That would imply that cuddling with a flat-chested woman isn't attractive, and I have found it quite so in the past. Besides, most women are warm and relatively soft all over. There's the further fact that the stomach isn't a very comfortable place to have someone's head, arms are pretty small and easy to cut off circulation, and legs make for awkward positions if both are lying down (though head-in-lap can be nice too). So what is there? Are you objecting just to object? Instead of addressing my questions head-on, you have danced from the issue of sex-for-sympathy ploys, smeared men as boob fetishists, and completely ignored questions of role reversal and same-sex couples as they relate to your line. You seem to have an objection to any kind of request which indicates a male's more tender side. True, sympathy isn't uncovered by removing underwear ("sympathy fscks" notwithstanding) but you could probably learn a lot about people's character by offering what they claim to want and seeing if they take it. Instead you've decided to denigrate half the human race by implication. I'm sure that a lot of the guys you've run into hardly know their own minds (like the difference between loneliness and lust), but I don't think that's an excuse for ignoring your own issues. IP: Logged |
Astrid Leuer Super Geek Posts: 150 |
posted August 29, 2000 11:39
[just to note that I will not be replying to "Tau Zero", or to anyone else who uses threatening language to women. I don't appreciate being told to "watch my mouth" by anyone, and the day I cease to use generalisations about programmers will be precisely one day after little bigoted boffins like him stop sneering at women, blacks, "marketing suits" or anyone else whose presence stirs up their feelings of inferiority, in order to simulate an intellectual superiority they most certainly do not possess. Everyone else on this bulletin board seems to be capable of polite conversation; I somehow don't think I'll be missing any pearls of wisdom by ignoring one isolated, rude, sexist troll. I'm frankly amazed that Mindy is still prepared to give you the time of day; trying to force women to talk about their breasts on the internet is pretty sad. And you didn't have the nerve to participate in any of the sex threads. Little, little, boy.] grrrrrr There's obviously too much here to reply to point by point, but I maintain that a lot of people here are in denial about their racism. Look at it this way: You believe that affirmative action is wrong because more qualified people are not hired ("discrimination") In order to believe that this is true, you have to believe that, rather than correcting racial discrimination which exists, affirmative action programmes are forcing unqualified people into jobs ahead of qualified people (there is *no* evidence of this, by the way). If you believe that whites and Asians are "more qualified" for jobs than blacks, then either this is because of racism, or it's because blacks are naturally inferior. I haven't seen *anyone* take the first position, so I have to conclude that people in this thread believe (not necessarily consciously) that there is something about black people and/or black culture which is inferior to whites. If you believe that the white race is superior to the black race, then I don't see how you can object to being called a racist. So go on, prove me wrong. Why *is* it that there are so few black people in the tech industry? Are they naturally stupid, or just culturally lazy? Gimme your honest answer. I don't pretend that this is any better in .za, but at least our racists have the courage of their beliefs; they don't pretend not to be racists. Oh yeh, and I think everyone misunderstood my point about "porno .mpgs". It's not the specific action; it's the attitude that comes with it. If you've told dirty jokes, or accused women of being "aggressive", or said "watch your mouth", or done anything else which a woman might consider intimidatory or agggressive, then I'm afraid to say that what you've done is just as bad or worse. I'm quite partial to the odd porno .mpg myself, but only in the right context, and with someone who I don't suspect of being the kind of sneering little nebbish who always has an /ever so excellent/ explanation for why that woman "wasn't quite appropriate" for promotion. someone reactivate the sex threads, I need to get a bit of balance back ... ------------------ IP: Logged |
Migrant Programmer Alpha Geek Posts: 255 |
posted August 29, 2000 12:00
quote: I'll let Tau Zero defend himself, of course, but he did happen to participate in the 'Kinky sex spinoff' thread..
quote: Or it's because perhaps there are more people of a certain race who are qualified for a certain job, who have had the opportunity to get the education, etc. That doesn't mean that the people of that certain race are "more qualified" than people of another race, given the same education/training. It just means you're more likely to find a person of that certain race who is qualified than a person of another race who is qualified.
quote: Well, since that generalizes pretty quickly to the definition of racist, I would certainly agree with you there.
quote: I don't have hard numbers at the moment, but I would guess it has something to do with opportunity for education and the economic demographics of blacks across the States. As well as racism, you can't ignore it, it still happens and probably always will. Unfortunately. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 29, 2000 12:16
quote: Exploitation isn't necessarily just economic, nor is it incompatible with enjoyment. The recent USian TV show "Survivor" ought to provide enough evidence to satisfy anyone that some people are quite happy to debase themselves for money. And the porn "industry" in the past has shown itself more than willing to profit from the most vile conduct. Linda Lovelace, for example, is on record that her performance in "Deep Throat" was done literally at gunpoint, and that when you watch that film, "you're watching me being raped". Would it be any better, really, if she had been granted a share of the film's profits? quote: Indeed the body, and sexuality, are or can be beautiful. But don't you see any difference between ballet and strip shows, or between tender lovemaking and exposing your body to a roomful of drunken, drooling lechers? Here's another thought: do you suppose the percentage of rapists among male porn addicts is greater than among the male population in general? I would suspect so. quote: This seems like a rather flimsy rationalisation. It's sort of like, "I let my children play with toy guns because if I didn't, they'd want real ones." ------------------ IP: Logged |
Astrid Leuer Super Geek Posts: 150 |
posted August 29, 2000 12:21
quote: ????? Have the Epistles been struck out of the New Testament??? I seem to remember numerous of them referring to homosexuality, in detail. IP: Logged |
Mindy Viridis Geek Posts: 81 |
posted August 29, 2000 12:35
quote: This makes sense to me, and seems rather obvious, but it certainly isn't mainstream Christian thought. Remember that the Roman Church's heresy case against Galileo was based on a single verse of the Bible, which, if taken literally, claimed that the sun revolved around the earth. Of course, that was 400 years ago, but it took the Church until just a few years ago to reconsider that case! While you and I may agree that the Bible was written by men, whether or not inspired by God, certainly for most of the last two thousand years, all the mainstream churches have said otherwise. If the Bible is now to be regarded as anything less than the absolute, eternal, and perfect word of God, this is a recent innovation on the part of theologians. In a way, it is difficult to generalize about Christianity, because there are so many variations and tiny little splinter groups making different claims. The one thing they all seem to agree on is that they, and they alone, have access to truth. (I suppose Unitarians wouldn't agree with that, but I've heard it said that UU's aren't really Christians at all. This is all the more confusing for me as a newcomer to America, as the USA seems to have more demoninations of Christianity than the whole rest of the world put together.) Anyway, if I say something about Christianity in general that doesn't happen to apply to your version of it, please don't take offense, and feel free to tell me what your sect teaches on the subject. (By the way, if you don't mind my asking, which sect do you belong to? If I've heard of it before, it might help me understand your viewpoint.) quote: Of course, right there you have the standard bimodal interpretation of womanhood, recognized by Freud a century ago -- the madonna/whore complex. If a woman isn't completely divorced from her sexuality, she's a slut, or as St. Augustine put it, a "sack of dung" redeemable only through renunciation and faith, Mary Magdalene being the canonical example. So how is this a positive image of womanhood? ------------------ IP: Logged |
Swope Geek Apprentice Posts: 45 |
posted August 29, 2000 13:37
Astrid, my bad. I meant to say that nowhere in the New Testament you'll find Jesus saying anything about homosexuality. A big difference, I realize, but I still think it's an important point, since Christianity is based on the teachings of Jesus. Mindy, ok I can see your point, but I disagree. With the matter of Mary Magdalene, I think it's an issue of being saved and redeemed through confessing one's sins rather than a divorce from sexuality. Now whether sex for pleasure/money/whatnot is a another whole debate, but in the period in which they lived, prostitution was viewed as immoral and a sin. I believe that it is her confessing her sins that is the crux of her redemption rather than a divorce from her sexuality. (I realize I'm repeating myself, I just wanted to get make my point clear) btw - my church is a congregational church w/ a dual affiliation: American Babtist (decidedly different from the Southern Babtists) and United Church of Christ. ps - I hope I'm not being too preachy. I'm really not trying to preach to anyone or convert anybody, but I get worked up when people make generalizations about Christianity. Mindy, you pointed this out, but I still want to address it. More often than not, people take a belief or teachings of a minority in Christianity and generalize it to the whole. And in the US, Catholics are a minority. (that's not targeted towards Catholics or Mindy. Mindy had mentioned Catholics before just as an example) IP: Logged |
Sad Mini-Geek Posts: 51 |
posted August 29, 2000 16:02
Excuse me if I'm not totally saturated and up on the immense back and forth that's gone on in this thread (not to denigrate it at the least -- just little time to browse). Even though I've little time, I've found I'm unable to keep my eyes off these forums. You all are engaged in the most spirited interesting discussion I've witnessed in a while. Sorry for the ramble...don't have as much time (or 'natural'coherence) to put this together better. >So go on, prove me wrong. Why *is* it that there are so few black people in the tech The first (innate stupidity) is definitely wrong. The 2nd (cultural laziness) is trickier. I'm not sure one could describe a culture as lazy. Different values. But perhaps one can judge such. Even so, hard to say. Some of the comments I think some of the overwhelming factors are Another factor: nuclear family. Long term I had family to encourage me and provide role models against negative cultural grain. In the end, of course, we all must make what we will of ourselves -- and each of us as a slightly wierd aside The auto-bio of Malcom X is quite inspiring to me as a story I always growl at forms that ask for my 'racial' identity -- as it's such a stupid I'm neither rich nor poor. I can't really imagine the immensity of impact that poverty and lack of safety can impose on a family unit...far beyond the obvious. It's hard enough growing up -- and raising kids on the other end. I was a long time supporter of affirmative action, but I don't think it's right. Seldom does centralized control/manipulation really work. I do think blacks are prejudiced against today in the USA. I also think that it's wrong to promote someone just because of color. I'm certainly of a black person unfairly 'taking' my space -- I can take care of my own. Affirmative Action was/is an attempt to solve a real problem. I don't think it's the right solution, however. I've wondered about it for years (10?) and don't have a better solution. Talking with a friend the other day, I think perhaps it's a problem of framing. Not, AA+ or AA-? Rather, it's the wrong question. That much I'm convinced of. Maybe the answer is providing a decent education. In the past 10 years I've been shocked by living in Boston and NYC by the fact that (when I was there) some inner city schools did NOT have school books. How is this possible?!!!! It is a complete travesty and stupid beyond belief from any perspective imaginable. Odds stacked that those kids grow up as thugs and parasites rather than full spectrum members of society. Well, enough rambling for now. Wish I had Why are there so few blacks in hi tech. Why so few women in high tech? Important question for society to answer in order to IP: Logged |
CyberGoddess Assimilated Posts: 354 |
posted August 29, 2000 16:17
You also didn't see me claiming that it's only women in the newsletters. It's rather sexist to assume that my company only caters to the male population. And based on your comments against the male gender, you probably would see nothing wrong with men exposing themselves. Why should women be any different? Here's a tip: Get off your moral high horse and stop "preaching" to the rest of us. You're no better than we are, sweetheart, and frankly I'm tired of you acting like you are. Bullshit is bullshit, no matter what kind of pretty little words you try to use to dress it up. You don't know me, so you sure as hell have no right to judge me, my morals, or my beliefs. And, for the record, statistics will show that many rapists are the men you'd least expect.. not the drunken slobs you mentioned who go to strip clubs. They are middle-class men with decent jobs and many of them families. Unfortunately, stereotyping has taken its toll. ------------------ CyberGoddess http://www.cybergoddess.net "One world, one web, one program." - Microsoft Promotional Ad IP: Logged |
Sad Mini-Geek Posts: 51 |
posted August 29, 2000 16:30
CG -- Mostly agree with you. But... (Of course, the anti-sex crap also has a pretty negative affect!) IP: Logged |
Tau Zero BlabberMouth, the Next Generation. Posts: 1685 |
posted August 29, 2000 19:04
(Grrr.� I just spend a LARGE amount of time composing a response to Astrid, only to find that my entire text was irrevocably zapped when I mistakenly hit "escape".� This appears to have activated the "Clear Fields" button, when I did nothing whatsoever to press it.� There is no "undo" feature, either.� Snaggy.... no, whoever's doing this is, it should be un-done IMMEDIATELY.� The Internet Exploiter help was, of course, totally useless.� Whoever had this idiotic idea, I bet they're in Redmond, and I hope they either die slowly and painfully or wind up pauperized in the financial collapse of Microsoft.� Soon.) I did mention that I should deconstruct something of Astrid's someday.� I don't particularly have the time today, but this opportunity is just too good to pass up.� I shall do this in the style of a translation, with the text rendered in the first person.� Those with defective sarcasm detectors are warned in advance to expect quite a bit of it.� I'm not going to be particularly nice, but the charges and slurs aimed at me have been (IMHO) unjustified and unprovoked.� What's sauce for the gander is sauce for the goose.
quote: "I am unable to refute the arguments presented by certain people to counter my own, so I will slap pejorative labels on them instead and attempt to win using the ad-hominem argument.� If they object, I will term their words ``threatening''.� Considering that no action was threatened, and further that all the other participants in this discussion are on other continents, any idea of a threat to me is laughable.� Still, I shall throw out the slur and treat it as fact, hoping that nobody will call me on it. I occupy a priviledged position of credibility." quote: "Even if I am throwing out rude and sexist slurs, I object to anyone calling me on them.� I can tar an entire craft or sex with the same brush, because I occupy a priviledged position of credibility.� I object to being treated as an equal, to having my statements probed and questioned as I probe and question others; ironically, I am ignoring the lack of challenge from others who might merely be dismissing me out of hand as an inferior being unworthy of a response.� I object to the expectation that I should use logic to back my assertions.� I am superior, and my opinions should be accorded the status of natural law.� Sneering is my department, and only permitted for those things I consider objectionable.� My own hypocrisy (about attacks, about slurs, and above all about sexism) is not in the least bit objectionable." quote: "No one else on this bulletin board is willing to question me on my own sexism and unwarranted stereotyping, so I'll just go on the offensive.� I don't feel the need to read things accurately to see exactly who was trying to force whom to talk about what, so I'll just make an unsupported accusation and hope once again that nobody calls me on it.� I occupy... oh, forget it.� I will also create the crime of ``Failing to follow every thread in the Geek Culture forums'' and convict my target of it ex post facto.� Everyone should be just as obsessed with sex as I am, and spend as much time reading and responding as I do.� But only in ways that please me, of course.� I shall close by using a slur which would make me furious if it were used on me, but that's okay because I...� you know." [end Astrid-to-English translation] I am mature enough not to take Astrid's ill-informed opinions at face value.� I doubt that Astrid is sufficiently mature to let the above roll off her like water off a duck, and suspect that she will be absolutely livid after reading it (if she can bring herself to even read this far).� If so, it proves that she's been projecting her own failings and I've made my point. And I shall make other points as well, because I think that Astrid is, whatever her faults, a human being with good intentions and deserves such information as I can usefully present.� In other words, I am not going to take the above personally.� I'm going to do my best to give her the benefit of my perspective, for whatever she can get out of it.
quote:If you deny being a racist, you are a racist?� Is that the catch here?� US leftists like this game of undeniable guilt, but I refuse to play. quote:This is documented fact.� "Affirmative action" has been used to create separate and unequal criteria for admission to schools (see the case of Alan Bakke, "Bakke vs. University of California" I think). quote:Again, this is extensively documented fact.� Affirmative action has been used to justify "race-norming" of test scores for civil service promotions; by definition, this promotes the less qualified over the more qualified.� When the person who is more qualified is not hired or promoted because of their race, that is race discrimination no matter what the respective colors are.� Same for sex. quote:Correct answer:� (c) None of the above.� The question itself is worded deceptively; the fact is not that whites and asians are more qualified, but more whites and asians are qualified (and some are not).� "Qualified" is a distinction which applies to individuals, not racial groups.� The truth is that somebody who does not speak standard English, has poor reading comprehension, cannot write a coherent paragraph and has next to zero familiarity with math and science isn't qualified for 99% of the high-tech jobs in the USA.� That's what's coming out of inner-city schools; the average 17-yr-old black high-school senior is performing at about the level of the average 13-year old white child. quote:And there is something in majority white culture which is inferior to Chinese, Japanese and Jewish culture insofar as success in the professions is concerned.� People don't push their kids as hard to do well, education is not the prize and status symbol with some as it is with others.� Is it racist or anti-semitic to acknowledge this?� When facts come up against politics, it's politics that must yield. It also leads to a very non-racist conclusion.� People will try to do what is expected of them, and will absorb what's around them.� If we reward educational achievement and expect kids to succeed, and surround them with examples, they'll go on to do that.� If we spit on the valedictorians and denounce such as "too much of the other", our kids will do that.� It's not the genes, it's not the skin. quote:Racist, how?� Since when was a culture determined by skin tone?� If you take three infants from a black couple in Swaziland and raise one with Chinese parents in Beijing, one with Jewish parents in a tony neighborhood in New York and one in the slums of Los Angeles, you'll have three radically different outcomes.� The Beijing kid isn't going to grow up with an ear for hip-hop, and the Los Angeles kid has a far lower chance of becoming a doctor compared to the New York kid.� That's life. quote:(c) None of the above.� Most of them come from inner-city or rural schools, and both their schools and homes leave them ill-prepared and -qualified for high-tech jobs.� This isn't a fact of nature, it's a relic of history.� The problem is, it can't be abolished by government fiat; it requires effort on the part of the majority of people, especially parents.� This is hard, extremely hard.� And so far, the demagogues have been able to divert people by claiming victim-status and other easy non-solutions. quote:So if you admit to the existence of sociological factors which tend to stratify certain abilities by race, you are racist.� On the other hand, if you deny the existence of these factors, you are powerless to address them.� Catch-22.� I can't think of a better recipe for guaranteeing that the situation continues unabated. quote:I think I understood you quite well:� you think that people who do this are creeps.� Surprise, I agree.� quote:(emphasis added) I highlighted that part to point out where you are being grossly unfair (and sexist).� If a woman feels intimidated, it's ipso facto a wrong.� Or if any woman (no matter how hypersensitive or unreasonable) would feel that way, it's wrong?� Can a woman commit a wrong against a man by using intimidation or any other kind of psychological manipulation?� Don't deny that women don't have plenty of avenues for this sort of thing, especially against the kind of socially-isolated, sexually-deprived types who seem to populate your office. quote:I haven't seen a piece of porno I found interesting (except as a study of the psychology of the intended audience) for a long, long time.� The only example I'd want to share was funny because it was a James Bond spoof, and I have no idea where I'd find it (and no particular desire to look; it wasn't that funny, nowhere near as funny and worthwhile as Wallace and Gromit). quote:No comment. IP: Logged |
MeckaMon Uber Geek Posts: 818 |
posted August 29, 2000 19:50
Amen, Tau, amen. And another thing, everyone has some prejudices (even me). And there's nothing wrong with not publicly admitting that. It's usually referred to as "diplomatic" or "nice." ------------------ IP: Logged |
Sad Mini-Geek Posts: 51 |
posted August 29, 2000 21:34
T-0: Agree wholeheartedly with everything you said, except: . Govt can't do much but can do some. At bare minimum, the piss poor education in some quarters is f***ing stupid. Even were one uncaring of raising children to be thugs and such, one should in one's own self interest want to educate other kids. More education => Less crime, less $ in supporting criminal justice system, more $ in tax system from income earning folk I wish somehow the word 'conservative' could be reclaimed from the bigotted as**oles. You can hardly claim it's not pernicious, punative racism -- as it's against one's own best selfish interests. Easier for me to believe that people are malicious than *that* stupid. Finally, I don't agree on the porn stance. Or rather, I'm not interested personally in the porn. I also think it's likely that most of it is hugely exploitative and not good for folks. But I'll be d*mned if I'll put the whole category in a box w/concrete shoes. That's an overly narrow, self-righteous stance.
F*ck diplomacy. I'd rather have truth. If we were all honest, we'd get a lot farther a lot faster. Diplomacy is just so much nicer. Feh. Function over form. IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 30, 2000 00:37
quote: Now that raises an interesting question: IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 30, 2000 00:44
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quote: I can't speak for all varieties of Christianity, but in the Catholic Church, where I was raised, it was precisely "original sin" that was used to explain the evil disposition we all share. And that seems to be true of other denominations I've come across. In any case, the explanation of the phenomenon can be debated, but that it exists can not. IP: Logged |
Sad Mini-Geek Posts: 51 |
posted August 30, 2000 01:06
quote: Whatever. You're talking out of your hat. Free will, sure. Do people do bad things, yes. But 'share an evil disposition'? IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 30, 2000 02:57
Everyone: this has gotten rather nasty, and I hope everyone here will calm down and use good manners. Now, then:
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quote: Pardon me, but you said that in South Africa, the people who say things like �We have to keep the black underclass out� believe that blacks are inferior by nature. I do not believe that at all. Btw, Thomas Sowell, one of the U.S.�s more interesting thinkers, notes that accounts of Irish neighborhoods of 150 years ago sound much like black neighborhoods today (although you have to be careful of what black neighborhood you speak of. Most of my neighbors are black, and this is NOT an underclass neighborhood. Lower middle, basicly). Much the same social problems. We can hope will things get better.
quote: I don�t see any point in responding to accusations of racism, as nothing counts as evidence that you are not a racist. I can�t speak to the South African situation, but there is a great deal of evidence in the U.S. that affirmitive action does indeed promote the unqualified ahead of the qualified.
quote: You distort what we say, then mock the distortion. An old trick. I don�t think that all Asians and whites are �more qualified� than all blacks. In fact, I don�t even know what you mean by qualified. I do know that, statistically, all available predictors of results in some fields (such as success at the intellectually most challenging colleges) are unequally distributed by race, gender, and other factors. If one picks for, say, admission to the University of Minnesota those most likely to succeed based on the available predictors, the result is a student body that is more white and Asian than the general population. This is unacceptable to the powers that be, so they establish a �goal� of �diversity�, which is in plain talk quotas. Whites and Asians will be evaluated by some criteria or other, and admitted till their quota is filled, and the rest will be refused admission. Blacks, Hispanics, and American Indians (and probably other groups, I�m not up on the current criteria for affirmative racism) will be admitted till their quota is filled, even if unqualified. If by chance a white or Asian is just below the cutoff point for admission, but is accidently classified as black, they will be an automatic admit. If a black in the middle of the black group is accidently classified as white, they will probably be refused as unqualified. And the percentage of blacks, etc. admitted to the toughest schools under affirmative action who end up failing is much higher than that of whites and Asians. In short, the predictors seem to work fairly well. So the lives of affirmative action's 'beneficiaries' are screwed up to make the people who admitted them because of their skin color feel better. I say that�s racism, and I say to hell with it. Why not many blacks in tech jobs in the U.S.? Well, to the extent that higher than above average IQ is necessary, blacks as a group are at a disadvantage, as the black distribution is about one standard deviation lower than the white distribution. I don�t know why the IQ distribution difference, but the fact is massively documented. Then there is the vast number of blacks born out of wedlock, a majority if I remember correctly. Statistically, in the U.S., if your parents are unmarried, you are much more likely to drop out of school, end up in prison, etc. And there are many stories nowadays of U.S. black kids who study and try to succeed getting mocked, beaten, and sometimes killed for �acting white.� Not exactly conducive to success in high tech, such attitudes. Btw, why do you think we whites in the U.S. are predjudiced against blacks because of their race, but either not predjudiced against Asians or predjudiced in their favor. If we hand out rewards based on group membership, we must love Asians because they do better on average than whites. Gee, I wonder why I hate my own race this way ...
quote: Well, I frequently tell dirty jokes to my wife, who laughs at them and tells me others in return, but I wouldn�t do that with someone I didn�t have good reason to think would appreciate them. That's simple good manners. I can�t recall accusing �women� (which ones?) of being aggressive, and wasn�t aware that it was an offense. I have met aggressive women. The only person I can recall telling to watch their mouth was a guy who used to work for me in fast food. He was being rude to the customers. Had to fire him.
quote: For the record, I believe there is ample evidence that Lovelace was lying when she made that claim. On the general subject of porn and people debasing themselves willing: Of course. Whoring is the characteristic sin of capitalism, as genocide is of communism. When people are free, many of them will immediately begin to act in disgusting fashion. When they aren�t free, they�ll be oppressed by the rulers, and will still act in disgusting fashion, though perhaps not to the same extent or in the same way. I choose freedom.
quote: I am not aware of any evidence on this point, but in any case, is a porn addict/rapist a rapist because he was corrupted by porn, or did he become addicted to porn because he was already tending towards rape? I do have overwhelming evidence that almost all rapists wear shoes. Will making men go barefoot help stop rape?
quote: Actually, no one knows precisely what the Church�s case against Galileo was, as the accusation has never come to light. There is evidence (see Galileo: Heretic by Pietro Redondi) that he was accused of other things, and the relatively trivial charge he was tried under was substituted to protect him (among other things, he first beat the accusation, then, after off the record consultations, pled guilty). Welcome, Sad! Feel free to jump in and post.
quote: The only study of this I know of (The Black Family in Slavery and Freedom by Herbert George Gutman) found that black families were much more stable than today under slavery and freedom till about 1960. I think the evidence is that the U.S. welfare system was what disrupted black family life.
quote: The thing I especially remember from Malcom�s bio: He was one of the top three students in high school, thinking of becoming a doctor or lawyer, when a racist teacher told him those weren�t appropriate jobs for �niggers,� and he should consider something like carpentry instead. Sadly, he let the asshole discourage him.
quote: Affirmative Action was first proposed by President Johnson around 1966, and widely implemented in he �70s. If it was a solution, we�d see it by now. The only solution I can think of is to encourage each person to make of themself the best they can be, and judge them as individuals, regardless of race. Btw, Thomas Sowell has written a book Preferential Policies: An International Perspective which comes to the conclusion that they have failed wherever tried up through the time he wrote the book (before Apartheid ended in SA).
quote: A few years back there was a relatively funny porno movie, Lucy Has a Ball, which was a dead on parody of a typical �I Love Lucy� episode (Lucy�s mad at Ricky, he won�t give her money for shopping, so she comes up with a scheme to make some, which predictably goes wrong ...). But most of it is pretty boring. I do wish though I had a tape made during the last years of the porno theatre business, when they still did previews. At the end of the movie, there were four or five previews, each of which was for "The hottest movie ever made!" Unintentionally hilarious.
quote: I agree completely with your first paragraph, but in my experience it is the Liberals (note to non-USAmericans: �Liberal� in the U.S. does not mean what it means in European usage) who sabotage education for the lower class. They�re the ones who tolerate disruptive students, back social promotion, claim that if non-whites have lower scores on standardized tests that proves the tests are biased against blacks (subtext: �You don�t expect them to be able to learn, do you?�), and generally undermine any hope of effective education in lower-class and under-class neighborhoods. And when the problems are pointed out, the answer is always �Give us more time, and lots more money, and everything will improve. How much more time and money? While, till it improves, of course!� It�s the �bigoted asshole� conservatives who think non-whites can learn if taught properly. IP: Logged |
Saintonge SuperBlabberMouth! Posts: 1113 |
posted August 30, 2000 05:43
A quote and a statistic I came across today. From an article on the NYC Police Dept. " "Last Saturday night, a 23-year-old boy was shot and killed," a squad commander in Brooklyn tells me bitterly, by way of illustration. "His friends were with him; everyone knows who killed him. The only person who cared was the mother. I asked her to tell his friends to come and help solve the murder. She asked them, but they refused�his best friends. So I try to find them. One takes off, running. I'm chasing the kid, and people are blocking me. If the community really cared, I'd solve every murder. The community's only 'the community' when they want to trash the police. I attend every wake, I embrace every victim of crime, do whatever I can to solve the pain, and the rest of the community stays away. No one cares." Sums up crime strategist Jack Maple: "If we could get 'the community' to press charges and show up in court, we'd be batting a home run." "
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Astrid Leuer Super Geek Posts: 150 |
posted August 30, 2000 06:04
That quote is more interesting than you think ....
quote: Perhaps, Saintonge, the police would have better relationships with the black community if they stopped calling 23 year old black men "boys"? This is what I mean by being "in denial", by the way; this officer almost certainly doesn't realise what he's doing. IP: Logged |
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