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macadddikt18
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posted January 22, 2002 19:34     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
While i was crusing along the net i came across an interesting article.

Stanford University political scientist Norman H. Nie is in the middle of working on a study examining the effects that the Internet has had on everyday life and is so far disputing the idea that the Internet enhances people's social interactions. He contends that the Internet isolates people from one another.
here is the link to the article on the New York Times
http://www.nytimes.com/2002/01/21/technology/21LONE.html

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From the New York Times
The study concludes that Internet use at home has a strong negative impact on time spent with friends and family, while Internet use at work decreases the time spent with colleagues.... He will soon have survey data that examines a range of social and psychological variables that may show whether Internet users are happy, socially adjusted or depressed.

Of course if you spend time on the Internet you'll have less time to spend with other people. While I somewhat agree that Internet usage spreads people's attention and productivity even thinner than it already is, I'd be willing to risk saying that Solitaire, probably the most played game around the world, has accounted for as much cumulative lost productivity as internet usage.
Although many of us actively participate in online messageboards and instant messaging, many more people who are new to the internet may only browse web pages and never interact with anybody online. And for those who do have online friends, "the question is not the number of friends you have," Nie says, "it's the time you spend with them." It's true that the Internet can monopolize time spent with people in our everyday lives, but it can also serve to enhance and maintain those interactions, especially by bridging long distance relationships through email, instant messaging, or by reuniting individuals. As evidenced by the multitude of Ars meets that have taken place around the world, the Internet has helped many people forge new friendships, omitting the freaky antics that have resulted from AOL chat room usage. The Internet is at best a medium used to supplement to our daily interactions or to benefit people who are normally uncomfortable or outcasts in their real life relationships who seek like-minded people elsewhere. I'd argue that Internet usage only truly becomes harmful in instances where people neglect their responsibilities as friends or family members as a result of it.
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You make an interesting point, sir Nayt. Though the formula holds true for most things; everything in moderation, somebody once said.

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posted January 22, 2002 20:28     Click Here to See the Profile for sniper   Click Here to Email sniper     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the internet makes me far more social. before i became obsessed with my macs, i spent most of my time playing video games. that was something i did completely by myself. now that i'm on the net constantly, i use aol im, i send emails, i post in forums such as these, and participate in online games. these activities have introduced me to new people, and catalyzed interaction with people i see at school. if it wasn't for the internet, i'd be completely anti-social and introverted.

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I met my beautiful, highly intelligent, funny, smart girlfriend on the net.

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I met my beautiful, highly intelligent, funny, smart girlfriend on the net.

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macadddikt18
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posted January 23, 2002 05:31     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
While i tend to be the great out doors type in the summer, the internet does give me a social life in the winter when i am to busy with school and work to be out enjoying the outdoors.
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posted January 23, 2002 09:53     Click Here to See the Profile for Akira   Click Here to Email Akira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Studies like this are bogus, for one, simple reason -- the scientific community has yet to come to an agreed-upon definition of what exactly defines "Internet use." Until such a time, every study that comes out to point out how using the Internet turns you into a moronic, depressed zombie (as well as every study that comes out to counter those studies) is useless, because each study has a unique and totally subjective definition of what constitutes using the Internet.

This forum is a perfect example. What do we find here? People engaging in debates, greeting their friends, making new friends, and even trying to get dates. Sounds pretty social to me! Try doing all that in a bar that you walk into for the first time...I somehow doubt the results will be as successful.

The fact of the matter is that its almost impossible to use the Internet for any appreciable length of time without engaging in some form of social interaction--even if it's as simple as sending an email. By contrast, a great number of people can make it through an entire day at the office without engaging their coworkers socially, except insofar as what is necessary to get their work done.

So much time and money spent on useless studies. I think Mark Twain said it best:

"Statistics are like ladies of the evening -- once you get them down, you can do anything with them."

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macadddikt18
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posted January 23, 2002 10:16     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think one could also say that all generalazations are false. It is It depends on who they look at in the study and what that person is allowed to do online. Maybe if they sampled us, they would find, we are more social online than off. Then that would screw them all up.
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posted January 23, 2002 10:45     Click Here to See the Profile for joliet_jane   Click Here to Email joliet_jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Even *if* it can be proven that excessive internet use = social isolation, it's still making a correlation where one does not really exsist!

If one is not the sort who does not perfer spending his or her time talking w/ people, he or she will be doing something else, hence the "bookworm" sorts of people that have been around for decades. Those inclined to spend lots of time online may have been already likely to do so before discovering the Web. I've never been gregarious, and it was certianly that way loooong before I got my first home connection in 1998.

Plus, "real" and "internet" social groups and people are a lot allike. Ex.: I'm socially inadpet in celluiod *and* on the internet: I say stupid things all the time and I e-mail, post, and IM stupid things all the time also. The study proves nothing.

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posted January 23, 2002 10:53     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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If one is not the sort who does not perfer spending his or her time talking w/ people, he or she will be doing something else, hence the "bookworm" sorts of people that have been around for decades.

That is along the lines of introverts and extroverts. I agree. Not everyone is a social person. Which is another flaw in the study.
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posted January 23, 2002 11:52     Click Here to See the Profile for Steen   Click Here to Email Steen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the results of the survey owe more to misinterpretation and sensationalism more than anything else. The author started with the notion that the internet causes isolation and, since he found internet users had a lower percentage of sociable people, he wrongly assumed there was a causal relationship. The problem with that reasoning is that internet will never be the social outlet of the most sociable people. Those are the people who tend to desire more face to face interaction with others and the internet doesn't provide that.

Filtering out the most sociable members of any group will automatically result in the remaining group being less sociable than the group as a whole was. In this case, internet usage served as the filter, but almost any public/non-public criteria will serve. Remove the people who enjoy clam bakes and beach parties, for example, and the average sociability in a group will go down, but nobody is going to claim that eating clams and exposure to sand will make you more sociable.

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posted January 23, 2002 12:11     Click Here to See the Profile for Akira   Click Here to Email Akira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For yet another example of how scientific research can be presented in a misrepresenting manner, here's a line I just read in a study about the perceptions of people who live in London. See if you can spot the author's bias:

"Eight out of 10 Londoners generally enjoy living here, but one in five would leave London if they could."

The full article, for reference, can be found here.

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posted January 23, 2002 18:59     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Science in general is flawed. It is not limited to the reasearch, it is flawed all over.
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posted January 26, 2002 22:50     Click Here to See the Profile for Evilbunny   Click Here to Email Evilbunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Intresting.
"The study concludes that Internet use at home has a strong negative impact on time spent with friends and family, while Internet use at work decreases the time spent with colleagues."
Same with washing the dishes or mowing the lawn!

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posted January 27, 2002 08:28     Click Here to See the Profile for ASM65816   Click Here to Email ASM65816     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I suppose that it is possible that Chat-bots and other applications pass the Turing test with ease......

... but I still figure that most Chat Rooms consist (almost entirely) of humans.

I have a feeling that some define Social as:

Acting in a manner which strongly resembles the behavior seen in Commercials and Network Television Programming.

Other than that, the Internet has only experienced high activity in a few short years, as opposed to Social activity in cultures which have evolved over centuries.

Social activity has been used to ostricize individuals or groups for ages: based on race, religion, ancestry, wealth, change in beliefs (like saying that the Earth revolves around the sun), etc.

If anything, Geeks and other Internet critters tend to discriminate against: ignorance, stupidity, herd mentality, and sadism. (Note: Yes, there are Trolls, Flame-Baiters, and Spammers, but I'm just making a generalization.)

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posted January 27, 2002 14:30     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All generalazations are false.
Nayt

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posted January 30, 2002 08:58     Click Here to See the Profile for Akira   Click Here to Email Akira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by macadddikt18:
i think one could also say that all generalazations are false.

You do realize that's a contradiction in terms, right?

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posted January 30, 2002 10:28     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes,that is what is so amusing about it. HEHE
Nayt

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posted January 30, 2002 20:13     Click Here to See the Profile for donnab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nah, if I wasn't surfing the net I'd be watching TV. Now I just listen to the TV while surfing the net. My family is sleeping, so they aren't missing any "quality time" with me at all : )

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posted January 31, 2002 05:50     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting. I know it drives my parets nuts when i have the radio on, the tv on , and am listening to music while surfing the net. They can't understand how i can concentrate on the computer. Sounds somewhat familer.
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posted February 06, 2002 20:15     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I SAY, I AM NOT ANTI SOCIAL, THIS POST PROVES IT!
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posted February 07, 2002 17:29     Click Here to See the Profile for ZorroTheFox   Click Here to Email ZorroTheFox     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not anti-social, it is just that everyone I talk to seems so boring..........Z

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posted February 08, 2002 10:11     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand Zorro, that is why i post on this board. People hear seem much more intellegant.
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posted February 08, 2002 11:14     Click Here to See the Profile for Tau Zero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by macadddikt18:
People hear seem much more intellegant.

Nayt, eye can reed what ewe right, but yore bad speling and grammar make it hard two understand.  Wood yew try too improve a bit?

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posted February 08, 2002 11:19     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, i can try, but i am not sure it will get to much better. You are dealing with someone who can't spell very well, but has a big vocabulary. I will make an effert, but there is only so much a Dyslexic kid can do.
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posted February 08, 2002 11:56     Click Here to See the Profile for Akira   Click Here to Email Akira     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by macadddikt18:
but there is only so much a Dyslexic kid can do.

Can I recommend an unprecedentedly useful little utility called SpellCatcher? I too suffer from dyslexia (thankfully mild but still annoying) and literally could not function without SC. It sits in the background and analyzes your keystrokes, alerting you when you've made a spelling error in ANY application. It's also configured to automatically correct many of the errors most common among dyslexics. It also has an unbelievable amount of options for customization and includes dictionaries for legal, medical, and geek terms, along with the ability to add your own.

Oh yeah, and it's available for Mac and Windows, though no OS X version yet. *nix users are out of luck, though.

full details available at http://www.spellcatcher.com

(for the record -- I have absolutely no affiliation with the company or the product beyond being a VERY satisfied customer)

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posted February 08, 2002 12:08     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, that is cool, I will check it out. In the mean time I just type up my posts in MS Word and paste them in here. I will check out that app though.
Nayt

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posted February 08, 2002 18:02     Click Here to See the Profile for donnab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by macadddikt18:
Hey, that is cool, I will check it out. In the mean time I just type up my posts in MS Word and paste them in here. I will check out that app though.
Nayt


You can spell things any way you want. "Judge not, lest yee be judged yourself" or something like that. We all still know what you mean. I have a pro keyboard that randomly repeats letters, and sometimes I'm just too darned lazy to correct. Who cares? Don't even worry about it.

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posted February 10, 2002 10:16     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bad spellers of the world Untie!
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First they take away out freedom to mispell, then they take away our freedom of thought, it's 1984 all over again........Z

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posted February 10, 2002 19:54     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can smell a revolution.
Nayt

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posted February 11, 2002 16:44     Click Here to See the Profile for ZorroTheFox   Click Here to Email ZorroTheFox     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do revolutions smell revolting?..........Z

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From "History of the World, Part I"
Servant: "Sire, the peasants are revolting !"
King: "I know. They stink on ice."

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posted February 12, 2002 06:06     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess revolutions do smell revolting then.
Nayt

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Originally posted by ASM65816:
From "History of the World, Part I"
Servant: "Sire, the peasants are revolting !"
King: "I know. They stink on ice."



one of My all time favorite movies.......Z

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posted February 12, 2002 19:42     Click Here to See the Profile for macadddikt18   Click Here to Email macadddikt18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Never saw it.
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