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101
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Icon 5 posted March 31, 2007 15:35      Profile for 101     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
can any girl tell me why do you always walk in big groups and how could i know if a shy girl well...is interested in me and finally give me some tips to get the girl`s attention.

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Icon 1 posted March 31, 2007 15:57      Profile for MacManKrisK     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Nothing worth doing is easy! Nothing worth doing is easy! Nothing worth doing is easy!!!!!!

Okay, so you've got a girl that you're interested in. She's a little shy but every time you think you just MIGHT have the nerve to grab a pair and talk to her she's walking with her giggling group of friends, right?

Here's my caveat, I am not a girl, but I can tell you a few things about your situation. The hard truth is that there's no way to just /know/ that she's interested in you... that is... there's no way short of just asking. I could give you "signs" to look for, but that just makes the whole situation worse because then you second-guess yourself all the time... the whole "did she just smile at me?" or "she's playing with her hair and glancing at me... or is she?" game. And you tell yourself you won't do that, and you tell me you won't do that, but I'm telling you that you WILL do that! Trust me on this.

So, my advice in a nutshell: grab a pair and GO ASK HER IF SHE'S INTERESTED! Don't worry about her friends or the group she's with, just ask her! The sooner you do it, the easier it will be... conversely, the longer you put it off, the harder it will be. So go do it... now... I mean it!!

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Icon 1 posted March 31, 2007 16:14      Profile for 101     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
that`s fun that is exactly my situation,thanks for the tip.

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Icon 1 posted March 31, 2007 19:19      Profile for MacManKrisK     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I apologize if I was unduely blunt with my response. Understand, though, that your specific question gets asked all the freaking time and after a while you get tired of sugar coating stuff. The answer is always the same... there's no way to know unless you just bite the bullet and ask. [Smile]

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Icon 1 posted March 31, 2007 20:21      Profile for boo     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by 101:
can any girl tell me why do you always walk in big groups and how could i know if a shy girl well...is interested in me and finally give me some tips to get the girl`s attention.

I don't walk with big groups. I hate that, actually. But more information is needed. Are you seeing her in a school setting? If so, do you have any classes with her? I need to know what chance exists that you might actually be able to speak to her, alone. Also, are you shy as well? [Smile]
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Icon 6 posted April 01, 2007 15:59      Profile for 101     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
That`s cool that you don`t like big groups boo i am like that too, and yes i have one class with her,actually i ran into her one day alone and we had a really little nice conversation ,too bad that ended up too fast.and yes am a little bit shy when i start meeting people.

(by the way, sorry if i have grammatical errors,english is not my first language)

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Okay, the reason I asked about you being shy was because it didn't sound like you were too eager to walk right up to her group and say what you had to say in front of everyone. [Big Grin] Even though that could possibly score you big points.

I'm taking this to pm's, 101.

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Icon 1 posted April 01, 2007 17:33      Profile for 101     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Well boo,i think i must do what Neo did,say Whoa and Jump (and talk to her)...Whoaaaaaaa i hope the fall doesn`t hurt that much. [Cool]

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Sounds good to me. [thumbsup] But check your pm's for more helpful hints. [Wink]
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Icon 1 posted April 01, 2007 22:19      Profile for WinterSolstice     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
If it makes you feel any better I've both crashed and scored talking to girls in groups.

Sometimes you win, sometimes you don't [Big Grin]

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