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Wick
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Icon 1 posted December 28, 2005 23:38      Profile for Wick     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I have met a female I like. I have found out that this female has a man. The right thing to do is just go on with my life and forget about it. However, after thinking more and more about the sitiuation, why should I forget about it?

In this world everyone is out for themselves. Men came after my women. Why should I back down? After going back and forth I feel I should talk to her and ask if she is interested in hanging out.

What are some opinions? Should I be trying to steal someones girl?

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Challenge him to a duel. Winner takes the spoils. Loser dies.

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The way I see it, just because she has a man doesn't mean you can't be her friend.

My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw you face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.

Yeah, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
F**king high,
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw you face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you.

James Blunt, You're beautiful


I've have this problem quite often but not all relationships last and I've been with just about every girl that had a man when I met her because I'm not afraid to be a friend first. NOTE: Almost all of us are still friends.

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quote:
Originally posted by nerdwithnofriends:
Challenge him to a duel. Winner takes the spoils. Loser dies.

I have a better idea. Line up naked (with beer [Big Grin] ), and let her decide.. [ohwell] Ok, bad idea.. at least no one dies.

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quote:
Originally posted by Wick:
Should I be trying to steal someones girl?

Stealing is a sin.
I suggest you just rent her for an hour or two.

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No relationship is permanent. Get in there.

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Women are not posessions to be stolen. They are intelligent creatures with thoughts, feelings, and opinions and are capable of making their own choices and acting upon those choices.

If you are interested in this girl, quit acting like she is a book, movie, or some other inanimate object. Talk to her, make friends with her. Let her decide and support her choice, like you would for a friend, even if it's not in your favor.

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Wick, I think you have two options here:

1) Go with FireSnake's idea (Lightside points gained [Big Grin] ), or
2) Use a Mind Trick on her fella and persuade him to leave her since he is not the right man for her. You could also "persuade" him to plunge to his death from a great height, making it look like he committed suicide. Feeding him to a rancor or the Sarlaac are also less subtle possibilities. You get the idea. (Darkside points gained [Mad] )

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quote:
Originally posted by Wick:
However, after thinking more and more about the sitiuation, why should I forget about it?

Because it's the honorable thing to do.

If she really likes you, she'll dump her boyfriend and make a move. The fact that she's still with the guy should tell you something. [Roll Eyes]

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quote:
Originally posted by Astronomer Jedi:
Wick, I think you have two options here:

1) Go with FireSnake's idea (Lightside points gained [Big Grin] ), or
2) Use a Mind Trick on her fella and persuade him to leave her since he is not the right man for her. You could also "persuade" him to plunge to his death from a great height, making it look like he committed suicide. Feeding him to a rancor or the Sarlaac are also less subtle possibilities. You get the idea. (Darkside points gained [Mad] )

I say Darkside all the way dude [evil]

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An easy way to establish if there is any possibility of a relationship with the girl in question:

You say..."If you were single I would____ [Wink] " (you fill in the blanks).

She will then either say... "I can assure you that you wouldn't... [Mad] "

or... "Why wait until I am single? [Wink] "

You may get a bit of slap & tickle, or just a slap, but either way you will know how she feels [Razz]

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quote:
Originally posted by Grummash:
An easy way to establish if there is any possibility of a relationship with the girl in question:

You say..."If you were single I would____ [Wink] " (you fill in the blanks).

She will then either say... "I can assure you that you wouldn't... [Mad] "

or... "Why wait until I am single? [Wink] "

You may get a bit of slap & tickle, or just a slap, but either way you will know how she feels [Razz]

Grr...darn you forward people...always 'getting the girl.' =P

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quote:
Originally posted by FireSnake:
Women are not posessions to be stolen. They are intelligent creatures with thoughts, feelings, and opinions and are capable of making their own choices and acting upon those choices.

If you are interested in this girl, quit acting like she is a book, movie, or some other inanimate object. Talk to her, make friends with her. Let her decide and support her choice, like you would for a friend, even if it's not in your favor.

This is why I love these fora- I get to learn radical new ideas that I never would have come across IRL [Razz]

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quote:
Grr...darn you forward people...always 'getting the girl.'
dragonman97 - let me assure you, I find it much easier to discuss the theory now as a married man, than I did to put the theory into practice when I was single. Mind you, when I was single, I usually lacked the nerve to do what was needed. [Wink]

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quote:
Originally posted by Demosthenes:
quote:
Originally posted by Wick:
However, after thinking more and more about the sitiuation, why should I forget about it?

Because it's the honorable thing to do.

If she really likes you, she'll dump her boyfriend and make a move. The fact that she's still with the guy should tell you something. [Roll Eyes]

Well it might not be that simple... just because she is still with her boyfriend doesn't mean she still likes him. People stay together for reasons other than love--security, fear, or unwillingness to take risks, even if something better is out there. If she's been with her current boyfriend for a while, she might not be so rash as to suddenly dump him for someone else she suddenly met.

I don't know the whole situation; maybe she is happy to stay with her current beau. However, she might be miserable with him. I'd suggest just getting to know her as a friend first, and then see what evolves from there.

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quote:
Originally posted by FireSnake:
Women are not posessions to be stolen. They are intelligent creatures with thoughts, feelings, and opinions

Wait, women have thoughts and feelings?
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quote:
Originally posted by FireSnake:
Women are not posessions to be stolen. They are intelligent creatures with thoughts, feelings, and opinions and are capable of making their own choices and acting upon those choices.

Says who? This looks like pure feminist speculation.

/me ends trolling remarks  -

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There is always another option

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quote:
Originally posted by Demosthenes:
quote:
Originally posted by Wick:
However, after thinking more and more about the sitiuation, why should I forget about it?

Because it's the honorable thing to do.

If she really likes you, she'll dump her boyfriend and make a move. The fact that she's still with the guy should tell you something. [Roll Eyes]

Hi. Me again.Wick, it is not just the honorable thing. If you are looking for something longterm with her it is the only way. She will judge you by your actions, and how you treat her, and how you treat others. If everything were to go to plan and you 'stole'her how would she ever respect and trust your attitude towards a committed trusting relationship? How would she regard your respect for boundaries and promises? How would she be able to really trust you? How would you be able to rely on her? You both would be looking over your shoulders for the next threat, the next new person. Not healthy.

If all you want is a cheap piece of a$$ however, by all means go all out for yourself.

Good luck. [Smile]

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Tell'em you want to have a threesome. That way everyone wins.

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quote:
Originally posted by Steen:
Tell'em you want to have a threesome. That way everyone wins.

I often wonder, I know beds are built to sustain the pressure that comes from the passion of two, but three? Sounds like a safety hazzard to me.

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If you have one of those futon sofas you could just put the mattress on the floor.

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Whatever happened to the days of sleeping on a pile of furs and pillows on the floor? Those Bedouin sheikhs had the right idea...

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quote:
Originally posted by Rhonwyyn:
Whatever happened to the days of sleeping on a pile of furs and pillows on the floor? Those Bedouin sheikhs had the right idea...

Have you ever woke up with a raccoon skin up your, well, you know where?
If you have, you know why the mattress was invented

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No, that's why pajamas were invented!! [Razz]

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