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mephisto

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Icon 1 posted March 29, 2006 12:48      Profile for mephisto     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Ok i did something really retarded.
I had a three day rebound relationship. Three days.
no more.
And this is the msn conversation that followed it. Please, someone do something mean to me.

Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i had the shortest ever rebound relationship ever
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
three days!
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
a new fucking record
regaining control says:
what do you mean??
regaining control says:
what happened?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
it was the wierdest
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
met a cool girl
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
hung out
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
fell for her
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
unfell for her
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
done
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
three days or so
regaining control says:
you act like this is weird? You do this all the time. Since I've known you! lol
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
really?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
three days tho?
regaining control says:
k, well that's pretty short.. lol..
regaining control says:
you're funny.. so are you glad it's over?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i dunno. its over. and all i feel for it was less than what i felt for my last cup of coffee
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
or my cup of ice cream rather
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
with the coffee i miss it
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
with the ice cream i feel guilty
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
"did i have too much"
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
"its in a cup"
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
hrmm
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
"can i lick the cup?"
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
"its gone. well. i'll get another one tomorrow"
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
similar to that. like the ice cream in a cup.
regaining control says:
okay.. that was the funniest thing you've ever said!!! You are possibly as crazy as me!! It's fantastic!!! ha ha ha ha
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
not as crazy as you no.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i don't think so
regaining control says:
I don't know.. what you just said, may bring you pretty close though!! lol
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
haha.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
it's not crazy. its shown just how bad i have really gotten?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i'm too bored to even make an effort for a relationship
regaining control says:
what was wrong with her?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
nothing.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
kinda one dimensional
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
kept trying to make me "better"
regaining control says:
why was she trying to make you better? you're great how you are!
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i'm broken
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i keep taking relationships and toying with them
regaining control says:
why!?
regaining control says:
just take it as it comes..
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
you tell me. you know all. i lack self awareness to figure it out .
regaining control says:
don't rush it, or avoid it
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i'm not rushing.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
she was cute and smart and.... then blah
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i was bored. like you bore of that over played song on tv
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
kinda like that
regaining control says:
so she wasn't the right one.. fine.. move on..
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i did heh
regaining control says:
do work, and date and do whetever.. don't focus on it
regaining control says:
lol
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i don't
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i angsted over my ex
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
and rebounded
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
and now pfft
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
"back to normal"
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
and i know i'm going to hit on the girl that's at my favourite coffee place.
regaining control says:
good.
regaining control says:
do it up!!
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
too many tho no?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i change these things like most people go through car oil?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
*too many
regaining control says:
ya, but whatever.. so your a little premiscuis in love.. he he.. big deal
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
Like a sign on me reads "Change girlfriend every 1000 kms"
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
wonder where that stamp is heh
regaining control says:
hold one sec
regaining control says:
ha ha.. that's a good sign.. Mine is slippery when wet! lol
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
LOL
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
no its like i am with songs. sometimes i wont even bother letting it start. it plays like 5 seconds. i hit forward and sometimes i just let it keep going and realise "i thought i hated this but i love this song" how the fuck does this make sense?
regaining control says:
it doesn't but does. you're just weird and twisted
regaining control says:
omigod my favourite DJ has a new album!!!
regaining control says:
I'm so psyhced
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
nice. fine. fuck the self awareness kick. i'm going home to HBO.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
cool. which dj?
regaining control says:
Subliminal.. Israeli hip hop. he's the best!!!
regaining control says:
HBO?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
cool. hbo. the channel
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
big screen tv heh
regaining control says:
weirdo
regaining control says:
lol
regaining control says:
he he
regaining control says:
aaha ah
regaining control says:
http://www.tact-records.com/en/
regaining control says:
there is music on the site
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
hey. you eat. i work. work out and occassionaly watch tv.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
we all have our vices.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i think part of the problem is that she was "too good" or timid
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
something
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
turn off.
regaining control says:
of course..
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
but then i always find something. ugh.
regaining control says:
why are you still thinking about?
regaining control says:
I thought it was over
regaining control says:
are you sure it's over?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
cuz. she sms'ed me "i miss you. can't stop thinking about you."
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
f*.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i feel guilty
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
fuck
regaining control says:
ugh.. why do you feel guilty?
regaining control says:
if you don't like her you don't like her
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i dunno. i broke her heart. she was all sad. "but i thought you liked me. you were so nice. and all those flowers and the presents."
regaining control says:
you got her flowers and presents after 3 days?
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i'm big on that shit. i go all out. its kinda stupid. you'd think i was insane about a girl but nope. its just what i do. Can't help it
regaining control says:
well maybe you should relax on it a bit.. I mean 3 days is kinda soon to go all out.. cause then when you are really interested it'll be a bit more special
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
well. i don't understand it. i'm broken. i have issues. My mom's coming to india. I know why. man, I wish my parents would leave me alone. They're all "you do well. lets get you married." Fuck! why can't everyone and the fucking dog leave me alone? is it too much to ask to be left alone? and then if i'm happy being single. some dumb girl will go off and get all sappy and fall for me.
regaining control says:
ugh.. stupid people huh!
regaining control says:
sorry your frustrated babe..
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
meh. its like that. and i tell them "no. i'm broken. fuck off" no one listens.
regaining control says:
well girls are dumb! lol
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
and then i go off and find some hot girl and go retarded. and that's worse.
regaining control says:
dude, you need to see more daylight
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
i convince them they'are all that's good in life for me
regaining control says:
well you're dumb too! lol
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
and then. what? nothing.. i throw away the relationship. cuz they try to improve me.
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
ok i go home now. this was too much thinking
Μεφιστωφέλης says:
talk later?
regaining control says:
k.. hope you feel better babe.. sleep well.

Yep, i'm broken i think.
and i have never not rebounded. I get out of a relationship and into another. And i have not stopped. I go from one to another. and like the ice cream, i'll get another but then what? toss it away like a broken toy? i really need someone that can hold my attention for more than three minutes at a time....
The ones i want i pursue and then when i get them, I just kinda get bored.
The ones who don't want me and i don't want. i just kinda ignore and hope they'll go away. and i sometimes kinda spend time pursuing them anyways. and then i get bored...
i am really fucked. and i don't know where or when i broke but i did and nothing has fixed me in a long time.....
atleast i have my work. it keeps me busy.

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Astronomer Jedi
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Icon 1 posted March 29, 2006 23:45      Profile for Astronomer Jedi   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Have you ever kicked yourself when after searching high and low for something, you find it was right in front of you all the time?

It seems to me that you already have a female friend that keeps you occupied for more that three minutes at a time. Have you thought about a relationship with her?

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Icon 1 posted March 30, 2006 00:20      Profile for Tom- geeking around   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Dude, you gave me the link via IRC yesterday evening, but I was too lazy to go through it.
Now I did =).
Seriously man, maybe there is somebody who you know that keeps you occupied and but haven't thought of starting a relationship with?

If that's not the case, the girls just aren't the right ones?
Maybe you are just not ready for a relationship either?

Thomas

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mephisto

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Icon 1 posted March 30, 2006 00:54      Profile for mephisto     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Astronomer Jedi:
Have you ever kicked yourself when after searching high and low for something, you find it was right in front of you all the time?

It seems to me that you already have a female friend that keeps you occupied for more that three minutes at a time. Have you thought about a relationship with her?

yeah. I do have the female friend(girl on the other end of the msn convo) who is fun, cool and hot and we get along like an eskimo and an igloo. She looks up to me. But the problem is the same problem I have with most girls. I'm not around enough. Actually there are two major types of girls, the ones that I can get to go along with whatever I want and the ones that seem to be immune to whatever I have to say about everything in general. The particular one i just got rid of was too accepting off everything. And the other type annoy me cuz i don't get my way. I wish i could find someone in the middle. It would be perfect.
my requirements for a girlfriend are rather long and demanding. And no, "must be hot" is not one of them.
Its just a list that is very contradicting.....

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Icon 1 posted March 30, 2006 02:30      Profile for Astronomer Jedi   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Mate, it sounds like you have a ready made relationship waiting for you.

Is there any particular reason, like work or something, why you're not around much?

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Icon 1 posted March 30, 2006 06:10      Profile for dragonman97   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Dude...could you consolidate that to...
User: Said foo bar baz

...please?

Otherwise, I'll read it later when I'm awake, and have the time to read intelligibly.

Thanks.

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Step back and look at your life.

Look long and hard, and you'll often find that what you're looking for is there with you already.

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Icon 1 posted March 30, 2006 06:55      Profile for Astronomer Jedi   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by mephisto:
...my requirements for a girlfriend are rather long and demanding...

Perhaps that is one of your problems.

Try not to go into anything with any expectations. If something develops, yay, but if not you've either made a good friend or you move on. You might be surprised one day by when, where, and how you meet that right person.

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Icon 7 posted March 30, 2006 07:11      Profile for mephisto     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Astronomer Jedi:
Mate, it sounds like you have a ready made relationship waiting for you.

Is there any particular reason, like work or something, why you're not around much?

yeah. it is work that keeps me away from almost everything. we have our dev offices in india. that i manage. my partner handles business in north america.
we (me and cute girl) spoke today. over 2 hrs on the phone. its great. considering my average tolerance for conversation with standard girl is 15 minutes before i start tuning out and working on stuff.
and the outcome of the conversation was good. she's crazy about me except for the workaholic part. i did it to my ex. all the time. after about 10 mins. she would hear rapid typing and ask. "are you working?" me: "yeah, i had some stuff. and it really needs to get done. well, i'll talk to you later."
with this one. my blackberry rings, its my partner. me: "yo, i'll call you back. i'm busy." [Smile]
she even loves the fact that i am wierd, twisted and completely crazy about my work. its great in a lot of ways. and well. i couldn't ask for more. she's perfect for me.
and me, i like everything about her. even though she's nothing like my long list of "must have's" for a girlfriend. she's more than chubby and i don't care. well it bugs me a little,peripherally but not enough to make it an issue.
and we decided that when i'm done all this stuff and am actually there around her we'll look at this again. there are no absolutes but I took the step i've wanted to in the last little while.
so, here goes nothing. I'll let y'all know how it goes. but i have hope. in all the girls i have ever been with, its never been this good. not even the hot ones...
and she makes me want to be good. she tells me that under all the nasty, i'm a big puppy. and i don't mind..... [Smile] actually, i am.

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Icon 1 posted March 30, 2006 07:35      Profile for Astronomer Jedi   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
That's great news Meph.

Just don't force it, let it develop naturally. Nice 'n easy, like.

Good luck with it.


Now, in the interest of getting people together, would anyone like to add to the 'send Astronomer Jedi to New York City' appeal?

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