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Posted by abi (Member # 2921) on September 02, 2004, 15:17:
 
I have a couple of questions I am in highschool, a freshman to be exact. I like this sophmore a lot and well I am trying to get to know him but what I really want to know is well how do I get him to notice me and I mean catch his eye without showing too much skin or using my physical attributes, not they arent just fine I just want a guy to like me for me not just my boobs and nice figure. He is from germany and he has the tannest skin and black hair and the prettiest eyes I've ever seen, sorry didnt mean to drift off subject, anyway how do I get him to know I am interested?
 
Posted by Cap'n Vic (Member # 1477) on September 02, 2004, 16:10:
 
Must....restrain...myself....
 
Posted by abi (Member # 2921) on September 02, 2004, 16:12:
 
whats that supposed to mean?
 
Posted by Cap'n Vic (Member # 1477) on September 02, 2004, 16:15:
 
Just that, for me, getting my attention...all a girl would have to do is.....well, get nekkid [Big Grin]


/coat
 
Posted by abi (Member # 2921) on September 02, 2004, 16:22:
 
Well I am not going to go to school bearing it all. I think you know what I mean by what can I do to get his attention....
 
Posted by Cap'n Vic (Member # 1477) on September 02, 2004, 16:26:
 
I restrained....you asked....I told.

I cut you some slack too, because I assume you are a youngin'
 
Posted by abi (Member # 2921) on September 02, 2004, 16:29:
 
I know that you warned me but is there anything you think about other than sex and yes I am a younger person but that just means I am more interested in other things then sex. I have more important things to think about right now and anyway before I think about what I am prepared to do physicly I need to find the guy too so I am trying to get advice on how to snag him now if you want to give me some advice feel free
 
Posted by GameMaster (Member # 1173) on September 02, 2004, 17:50:
 
Hows about saying "Hello, I'm [your name here]." Or better yet, hit him with a clue-by-four (if he is a geek -- else use a clue stick).

Vic is a old timer who thinks the problems of people younger than him are trivial, because he sees how needlessly he got worked up over things when he was your age... In life the older you get, the larger the problems get, the larger the problems the smaller old problems seem. Basically, the quote: "Don't worry it only gets worse" fits life all too well.

Find out what he likes, if you share some intrests mention them. Ask him to coffee (or caramels), and see what happens. Life is too short to spend wondering "what if" so take a few risks (not life and death risks -- but you get the idea.
 
Posted by abi (Member # 2921) on September 02, 2004, 18:03:
 
thankyou very much from all of the replies I have gotten from everyone I have gotten a boost in confidence and I am now ready to face him [Smile] [Smile] [Smile] [Smile]
 
Posted by drunkennewfiemidget (Member # 2814) on September 02, 2004, 18:11:
 
quote:
Originally posted by abi:
I know that you warned me but is there anything you think about other than sex and yes I am a younger person but that just means I am more interested in other things then sex. I have more important things to think about right now and anyway before I think about what I am prepared to do physicly I need to find the guy too so I am trying to get advice on how to snag him now if you want to give me some advice feel free

Uhm. I thought it was the other way around. The younger you are, the more interested in sex you are. [Confused]
 
Posted by magefile (Member # 2918) on September 02, 2004, 18:14:
 
Depends on the age. It starts low, goes up, then, in theory, goes down again.
 
Posted by magefile (Member # 2918) on September 02, 2004, 18:17:
 
Hold on ... I know a girl who's current status sounds like what you've described. Is the German guy's name Julian?
 
Posted by ZorroTheFox (Member # 917) on September 02, 2004, 18:29:
 
gee, if someone wanted me to notice they were interested the best way would be to walk up and tell me they were interested. I have always preferred the direct approach, it leaves less room for speculation.
 
Posted by drunkennewfiemidget (Member # 2814) on September 02, 2004, 18:31:
 
Yea, and probably like most of us geeks, you're really not perceptive enough to notice otherwise.

I know I wouldn't be.
 
Posted by abi (Member # 2921) on September 02, 2004, 19:17:
 
I am not not interested in sex I just dont have time thinking about when I am going to and with whome I mean school is number 1 then comes boys...
 
Posted by csk (Member # 1941) on September 03, 2004, 02:52:
 
quote:
Originally posted by magefile:
Depends on the age. It starts low, goes up, then, in theory, goes down again.

Differs between genders too, so I've heard. Women's interest level peaks later than guys, apparently.
 
Posted by magefile (Member # 2918) on September 03, 2004, 22:58:
 
That would explain a *lot*.
 
Posted by ZorroTheFox (Member # 917) on September 04, 2004, 11:43:
 
quote:
Originally posted by drunkennewfiemidget:
Yea, and probably like most of us geeks, you're really not perceptive enough to notice otherwise.

I know I wouldn't be.

that's for sure, I once got handed a love note with a phone number on it and I still had to ask if she was interested. That was back in high school though, I think the phone number would be enough these days.
 
Posted by Katie (Member # 2502) on September 04, 2004, 19:08:
 
Yah another freshman!But anyways the guy I am "after" looks and acts like an ex of mine so I just do the same things as before:
1talk to him causally
2touch him as much as possible without over doing it
3joke around about dating him
4ask him to go hang out with you and your friends sometime
 


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