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abi
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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 15:17      Profile for abi     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I have a couple of questions I am in highschool, a freshman to be exact. I like this sophmore a lot and well I am trying to get to know him but what I really want to know is well how do I get him to notice me and I mean catch his eye without showing too much skin or using my physical attributes, not they arent just fine I just want a guy to like me for me not just my boobs and nice figure. He is from germany and he has the tannest skin and black hair and the prettiest eyes I've ever seen, sorry didnt mean to drift off subject, anyway how do I get him to know I am interested?

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 16:10      Profile for Cap'n Vic     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Must....restrain...myself....

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Icon 5 posted September 02, 2004 16:12      Profile for abi     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
whats that supposed to mean?

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 16:15      Profile for Cap'n Vic     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Just that, for me, getting my attention...all a girl would have to do is.....well, get nekkid [Big Grin]


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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 16:22      Profile for abi     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Well I am not going to go to school bearing it all. I think you know what I mean by what can I do to get his attention....

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 16:26      Profile for Cap'n Vic     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I restrained....you asked....I told.

I cut you some slack too, because I assume you are a youngin'

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 16:29      Profile for abi     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I know that you warned me but is there anything you think about other than sex and yes I am a younger person but that just means I am more interested in other things then sex. I have more important things to think about right now and anyway before I think about what I am prepared to do physicly I need to find the guy too so I am trying to get advice on how to snag him now if you want to give me some advice feel free

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 17:50      Profile for GameMaster   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Hows about saying "Hello, I'm [your name here]." Or better yet, hit him with a clue-by-four (if he is a geek -- else use a clue stick).

Vic is a old timer who thinks the problems of people younger than him are trivial, because he sees how needlessly he got worked up over things when he was your age... In life the older you get, the larger the problems get, the larger the problems the smaller old problems seem. Basically, the quote: "Don't worry it only gets worse" fits life all too well.

Find out what he likes, if you share some intrests mention them. Ask him to coffee (or caramels), and see what happens. Life is too short to spend wondering "what if" so take a few risks (not life and death risks -- but you get the idea.

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Icon 7 posted September 02, 2004 18:03      Profile for abi     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
thankyou very much from all of the replies I have gotten from everyone I have gotten a boost in confidence and I am now ready to face him [Smile] [Smile] [Smile] [Smile]

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 18:11      Profile for drunkennewfiemidget     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by abi:
I know that you warned me but is there anything you think about other than sex and yes I am a younger person but that just means I am more interested in other things then sex. I have more important things to think about right now and anyway before I think about what I am prepared to do physicly I need to find the guy too so I am trying to get advice on how to snag him now if you want to give me some advice feel free

Uhm. I thought it was the other way around. The younger you are, the more interested in sex you are. [Confused]
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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 18:14      Profile for magefile     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Depends on the age. It starts low, goes up, then, in theory, goes down again.

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 18:17      Profile for magefile     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Hold on ... I know a girl who's current status sounds like what you've described. Is the German guy's name Julian?

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Icon 12 posted September 02, 2004 18:29      Profile for ZorroTheFox   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
gee, if someone wanted me to notice they were interested the best way would be to walk up and tell me they were interested. I have always preferred the direct approach, it leaves less room for speculation.

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 18:31      Profile for drunkennewfiemidget     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Yea, and probably like most of us geeks, you're really not perceptive enough to notice otherwise.

I know I wouldn't be.

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Icon 1 posted September 02, 2004 19:17      Profile for abi     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
I am not not interested in sex I just dont have time thinking about when I am going to and with whome I mean school is number 1 then comes boys...

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Icon 1 posted September 03, 2004 02:52      Profile for csk     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by magefile:
Depends on the age. It starts low, goes up, then, in theory, goes down again.

Differs between genders too, so I've heard. Women's interest level peaks later than guys, apparently.

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Icon 1 posted September 03, 2004 22:58      Profile for magefile     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
That would explain a *lot*.
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Icon 12 posted September 04, 2004 11:43      Profile for ZorroTheFox   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by drunkennewfiemidget:
Yea, and probably like most of us geeks, you're really not perceptive enough to notice otherwise.

I know I wouldn't be.

that's for sure, I once got handed a love note with a phone number on it and I still had to ask if she was interested. That was back in high school though, I think the phone number would be enough these days.
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Icon 1 posted September 04, 2004 19:08      Profile for Katie   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote 
Yah another freshman!But anyways the guy I am "after" looks and acts like an ex of mine so I just do the same things as before:
1talk to him causally
2touch him as much as possible without over doing it
3joke around about dating him
4ask him to go hang out with you and your friends sometime

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